How can you break into a conversation about if they are unsure if there is a God or not?  How do you find out that they are an Atheist?

One effective method to ascertain someone's beliefs is to pose a question such as "Do you believe in God?"

If their immediate response is not "No!" ask this: "If you believe that there is no God, we will call this a zero (0), or if you are absolutely certain that there is a God, we will rate this a ten (10). How would you rate your belief on a scale of 0 to 10?"

 Walking along the beach I see stones, lots of stones. As I continue to walk I see from a distance one particular stone.  It is not necessarily the best looking stone, but it has caught my eye.  I pick it up, appreciate the beauty in it, and put it in my pocket close to me.

The beauty of stones becomes greater when you put them together, one enhances the other. Dark, light, big and small, together they make a statement, a beauty to behold, simple but profound beach stones.

The Bible has many wonderful promises to equip us to do our assigned tasks for the Kingdom (e.g., “Perform signs and wonders,"  “that you will do even greater things,” Mark 16:17–18, and John 14:12–14, etc.). We do not seek out glory and power for ourselves, but miracles can accompany disciples as they go out into the world and interact. These can be very powerful tools in evangelism. You can easily crash and burn as well!  Don’t let yourself be the free goat (I'll expain later on).  

This is a simple kit you can download and use. The kit complements the previous article titled: Icebreaker #6a: Chat over a cup of coffee.

We offered a free beverage or drink if they would stop and share their story with us. We then offered a snack to go with the drink if they took a short survey.

The survey was just six questions about sharing Jesus without fear or argument. Actually, sometimes we add other preamble questions that are topical at the time.

We specifically designed this icebreaking exercise to facilitate "cold witnessing" with strangers. We discovered that cold witnessing is a last resort because witnessing to someone with whom you already have a relationship is much more effective. We call this primary type of witnessing "oikos mining." This activity is especially beneficial when interacting with a group rather than working one-on-one. A real challenge sometimes. It seems especially good with pre-teenage and teenage boys or young men.

This is a well-liked discussion starter. This will turn any conversation on the temporal (earthly) domain into a discussion about the eternal realm. If you think it is acceptable for that particular conversation, give it a try.

  • If God could do a miracle today for you or your family, what would it look like?
    or
  • "What would it look like if God performed a miracle for you or your family today?"

(You can search for "icebreaker" to see additional examples.)